There is fault, and there is fault...if someone cannot excercise self control, is that your fault? If they misinterpret signals, is that your fault? Over and over again I see examples of this...where someone does something so wrong...and then twists it around until the victim feels the blame...I see and hear it between families, friends, and strangers...and it doesn't matter who it is, it is wrong...and if you take the blame, it makes it easier for them to justify what they did...and do it all over again to someone else...

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and I understand it must be hard to see it now, after this...but scars won't help...you need to be open and honest with the people that matter...and speak to them...don't hide behind the scars...use your voice instead...let them help...
Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end...
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